Remember my story about the refrigerator?

𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞…

Originally posted on Facebook on Friday, June 6, 2025.

Remember my story about the refrigerator?

Well, the situation got even more complicated.

After painstakingly researching specifications, checking reviews, and comparing pricing, we selected what we thought was the best value for the money. We placed our order and scheduled delivery on Lowes.com.

We were pleased.

Weeks go by, and then we receive an SMS:
"The payment for Lowe's order was declined. Update it within 3 days to avoid delays or cancellation."

Wait. What?!

I scurry over to our bank's website to verify the transaction. And sure enough—we had already been charged.

So I called Lowe’s customer service to see what was going on.

Lowe’s rep: How may I help you?

Me: Hi. We recently bought a refrigerator through your website. I just got a message saying our payment was declined, but we’ve already been charged.

Lowe’s rep: That wasn’t a charge. It was a hold.

Me: Okay… but the charge is still showing on our card, and now it looks like you’re trying to charge it again.

Lowe’s rep: [abruptly] Would you like to speak to a manager?

I’m transferred to a manager, who explains that Lowe’s authorizes the card for the full amount when you place the order online, but doesn’t actually charge it. After a few days, the hold is released, and then they reattempt authorization. They do this repeatedly after a set number of days (maybe 10? no one really knew) until the order is delivered.

I explained this wouldn’t be a problem if the hold were released before the card was charged again—but it wasn’t.

The manager admitted this was a known issue that affects many online customers, and that many end up canceling their orders and reordering in-store. The problem? We purchased this fridge during a sale, and the promotional pricing was no longer available.

I asked if I could just buy a Lowe’s gift card and use that to pay, to avoid this loop of reauthorizations. She said there was a risk it would kick the order out completely—best case, it would delay delivery another 22 days. Worst case, we’d lose the sale pricing and end up paying nearly double.

I asked, “Are there any other options?”
She replied, “Sorry, no.”

Enter Samuel and Aliya.

I went to our local Lowe’s expecting to cancel the order, settle for a less ideal option, and face who-knows-how-long of waiting—all while we were badly in need of a refrigerator.

I explained the situation to the clerk at the appliance desk—Samuel. He pulled up the order, started researching options, and even logged into the distributor’s website to check stock. Then he called a manager to make sure he wasn’t missing anything.

Finally, he said, “Mr. Luckett, here are our options—it’s a possibility it may not work, but this is something we can try.”

Then Aliya walked up, responding to Samuel’s page for a manager. They deliberated some more. Then she said, “This should work.”

Together, we walked over to the customer service desk. They pull up my order, and after overcoming some obstacles, our original order with the original installation date was completely paid for and they provided me the paperwork to prove it!

Two people, stopped, and explored everything they could do to help me—rather than telling me what they could not do.

Samuel and Aliya saved my relationship with Lowe’s and made my life measurably better—I walked in with a problem and I walked out without one. They have no idea the weight they lifted off my shoulders.

And they did it all with a smile.

Thank you, Samuel and Aliya.

#duehonor #speaklife #neighbors #grateful

In Week 23 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God for…

In Week 23 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God for an overflowing cup.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣…

Originally posted on Facebook on Wednesday, June 4, 2025.

In Week 23 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God for an overflowing cup.

Today, I will boast in the Lord.

God has affirmed His Word and rewarded my seeking Him.

“But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.”
— Hebrews 11:6

My cup runs over.

“Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom.
For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”
— Luke 6:38

Every time I’ve heard this passage in the past, it was from those devouring widows’ houses.
But this isn’t about money—obviously not.
How could money be put into your bosom?

No, this is about a much greater treasure—
"the true riches."
And I’ve been given a tiny sliver:
the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 4:6).
That is worth more than all the money in the world.

Now I see dimly,
but oh, what a wonderful, soul-filling sight!

My cup runs over—
not only in the face of difficult circumstances,
but because of them.

God has used them to turn me to Him
in ways I would not have otherwise—
to show me more of His heart,
and to make His heart more of mine.

Oh, I see it now:

“Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities,
that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
— 2 Corinthians 12:9

My cup runs over with His goodness—
even in the presence of my enemies.
And my sincere pray is that it's overflowing into others.

I’ve got 99 problems,
but being empty ain’t one.

I'm grateful.
#52WoG

I had a co-worker who was concerned about a plant at the office.…

I had a co-worker who was concerned about a plant at the office. It wasn’t doing well. Her first…

Originally posted on Facebook on Sunday, June 1, 2025.

I had a co-worker who was concerned about a plant at the office. It wasn’t doing well. Her first instinct was to take it home and repot it—to make sure it was in good soil.

I found wisdom in that.

There are a lot of things we can do in the care of an ailing life—we can prune, pick away dead foliage, treat for invasive pests—but it’s all for nothing if the plant isn’t rooted in good soil and exposed to proper light.

“I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.”
— John 15:5

The principal thing is getting them to Jesus—"bringing them home" which means to bring them closer to ourselves and other believers where there is good soil… to get rooted in Jesus and exposed to the light of God's love.

This is the essence of life in Christ—God with us, God through us, God all in all.

This is true discipleship: bringing others into the good soil of Christ among us—the solid ground from which all life stems and lasting healing follows.

#HealingStartsWithGoodSoil #Christ #Discipleship #Church #perfectourlove

You know what I think makes for a fulfilling life?

You know what I think makes for a fulfilling life? Creating the beauty you want to see in the…

Originally posted on Facebook on Tuesday, May 27, 2025.

You know what I think makes for a fulfilling life?

Creating the beauty you want to see in the world.

No—more than that—creating the beauty you were created to bring into the world.

This is the Imago Dei—our likeness to our Creator. After each day of creation, God stepped back, reflected on His work—the beauty He put into the world—and saw “It is good” (Genesis 1).

That’s the first thing I must remember:
To be intentional about creating the beauty I was made to bring into the world.

I’ve noticed the "beauty" I’m drawn to create often reflects a trait of God’s character. Coincidence?

So now, I evaluate my days with a single question:
“Have I brought God to something today?”
If I have, it was a good day.

And I’ve learned—you don’t necessarily need a new job to create this kind of beauty.
Often, I can simply do my job in a new way.

I can attest to this.

I’m not particularly passionate about switches, servers, or routers.
But I do care deeply about connecting people, keeping them safe, and making their burdens lighter.
Information Technology just happens to be the canvas for me to bring it into the world.

And it’s not just about work—
Beauty can be brought into every part of life: family, daily activities, even rest.

The problem is, we often miss it.
Not because it’s not there—but because we fail to step back, reflect on our work—the beauty we've put into the world, and see it is good.

So here’s what I’m learning:

The first thing I must remember to do is to be intentional about creating the beauty I want to see in the world.
The second is to rejoice over it.

And I have much to rejoice about.

It's so wonderful to see, for example, co-workers appreciated and encouraged, or the family in Christ I've ministered to serving and expressing love for one another.

I can see why Paul wrote passages like Ephesians 1:15-16,

"Therefore I also, after I heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, do not cease to give thanks for you, making mention of you in my prayers …"

It's so good.

Satan’s full-time job is to prevent me from seeing it.
But it’s there—beauty I’ve been allowed a hand in creating.
And it’s worth fighting to see.

That beauty—participating in expressing God's beauty—makes life so fulfilling.

#WhatMakesLifeFulfilling #Beauty #Work #Fullfillment #GoodWorks #Thriveday #PerfectOurLove

Jesus did not come so we would have right ideas.

Jesus did not come so we would have right ideas. Jesus came so we would have God. “ I have come…

Originally posted on Facebook on Monday, May 26, 2025.

Jesus did not come so we would have right ideas.
Jesus came so we would have God.

“ I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”
“And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.”
— John 10:10; 17:3

Have you ever been hit so hard that you can't tell up from down?

I have.

When life hits you like that, philosophies, principles, and ideas leave you.

But, God never will.

” … For He Himself has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’”
— Hebrews 13:5

Come to Jesus, believe Him. Keep asking, seeking and knocking—desiring God.

“For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.”
— Luke 11:10

And get God through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit who draws near by grace through faith in Jesus Christ.

God is not just a concept in our head. Faith does not come by being convinced. It comes by meeting a Person, and by love of that Person that makes us one with Him.

“ … Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies.”
— 1 Corinthians 8:1

Receive what cannot be shaken as you become something new in Him never to be separated again.

#KnowGod #perfectourlove

In Week 21 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God—for God.

In Week 21 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God—for God. As I pondered the many…

Originally posted on Facebook on Sunday, May 25, 2025.

In Week 21 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks to God—for God.

As I pondered the many things I’m grateful for, it occurred to me: these things are beams of benefit streaming to me from God—one after another.

The gifts are good, but the true prize is God.

God is the ultimate good—and that gives me everlasting hope.

Whatever I’m going through—or whatever I’m without—because God is, I know there is good in the world.

And that makes me glad, even if it seems like I’m not experiencing it in the moment.

I rejoice in others enjoying Him, and it gives me hope that His light may one day shine on me again.

“Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.”
— James 1:16–17

There is a coming Day when I will bask in God’s light—and it will never end. (Revelation 21:23)

I’m grateful.

#52WoG

A bad habit of mine wrecked many conversations before they had a…

A bad habit of mine wrecked many conversations before they had a chance to…

Originally posted on Facebook on Tuesday, May 20, 2025.

A bad habit of mine wrecked many conversations before they had a chance to start—accusation.

I wish I had the wisdom and humility 20 years ago to say, “I have fears that cause me to interpret some of the things you do as proof that those fears are true,” rather than accusing others.

I tend to hold conclusions based on my observations and lead into conversations with them—until they’re disproven. While that works in science and sounds perfectly reasonable, it’s toxic for relationships. In science, you’re the one confirming or disproving a hypothesis based on new findings. In relationships, it comes off as an accusation—where you’ve put someone in a position to defend themselves before giving them any benefit of the doubt. It's cold, clinical and ungracious.

There’s also a kind of hubris in this approach: it assumes I’m completely objective in what I observe—but I’m not. Our fears skew our perspective, and it takes humility to admit that. It also requires the maturity to accept our limitations—there are always variables we can’t see.

“For what man knows the things of a man except the spirit of the man which is in him?”
—1 Corinthians 2:11

Our fears aren’t always reality—but sometimes they are. If someone is doing something that bothers you, and you’re dealing with someone compassionate, starting with vulnerability, fears, humility and where I may be wrong can lead to a more constructive conversation—because it’s exploratory rather than accusatory.

I can’t go back in time, but the next best thing is to pay forward what I’ve learned. I pray it helps someone perfect their love.

#RightOrReconciled #perfectourlove #marriage #communication

I recently learned that Charles Spurgeon wrestled his entire life…

I recently learned that Charles Spurgeon wrestled his entire life with depression. I find a quote…

Originally posted on Facebook on Monday, May 19, 2025.

I recently learned that Charles Spurgeon wrestled his entire life with depression. I find a quote from him on how he navigated his suffering deeply helpful,

“It would be a very sharp and trying experience to me to think that I have an affliction which God never sent me, that the bitter cup was never filled by His hand, that my trials were never measured out by Him, nor sent to me by His arrangement of their weight and quantity.”

It makes Paul's thorn in the flesh all the more real to me.

The Apostle Paul writes,

"And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure. Concerning this thing I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me."
– 2 Corinthians 12:7-8

What is fascinating to me is that Paul attributes the thorn to Satan but appeals to God for its removal.

In doing so he acknowledges the sovereignty of God—that God is in control in every circumstance. But more than that, he trusts Him.

Why?

Because of God's purpose.

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."
— Romans 8:28

This even applies to things done to me by others with malicious intent:

"But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive."
– Genesis 50:20

God's purpose is God:

God with us. God in us. God through us. God all in all.

And, that's good.

So whatever I face, I can be confident: God is in control, He is working it together for good, and that good is having more of Him.

But, sometimes it's really hard and I don't want that bitter cup.

Our Lord knows all about that and cried out, "O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me…" —Matthew 26:39

The Apostle Paul, too, knows that difficulty and pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from him. (2 Corinthians 12:8)

But God responds, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” —2 Corinthians 12:9

So, like Spurgeon, Paul and our Lord Jesus, I conclude,

"Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." —2 Corinthians 12:9

"Nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will." —Matthew 26:39

Because, Your will is good.

God's purpose is God:

God with us. God in us. God through us. God all in all.

May everything I am and have—including my suffering—result in more of You.

#MySureHopeInSuffering #perfectourlove #depression #suffering #GodsSovereignty #hope

There is only one objective: being with God.¹

There is only one objective: being with God.¹ There is only one work: believe in the one whom God…

Originally posted on Facebook on Monday, May 19, 2025.

There is only one objective: being with God.¹

There is only one work: believe in the one whom God sent—Jesus Christ.²

There is only one expression: loving one another.³

There is only one way: the manifold grace that flows toward us through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.⁴⁵

Beware anyone who makes it any more complicated than that.

Life in Christ is not complicated, sin is.

Most of the volume and intricacy of Scripture exists to expose the great multiplicity and complexity of sin in the light of the truth of God so that we are not caught unaware and overcome by sin. It illuminates the complex and perilous minefield to bring us to the way of escape—back to the simplicity that is in Christ.

"But I fear, lest somehow, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, so your minds may be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ."
— 2 Corinthians 11:3

This is the simplicity in Christ:

Jesus is how I connect to God.

Jesus is how I connect to you.

Jesus bridges God and man.

#TheSimplicityInChrist #PerfectOurLove

Was blessed with another treasure in Bible Study this morning. 1…

Was blessed with another treasure in Bible Study this morning. 1 Kings 13 is rich. It's the…

Originally posted on Facebook on Friday, May 16, 2025.

Was blessed with another treasure in Bible Study this morning. 1 Kings 13 is rich.

It's the account of the man of God who was killed by a lion after following instructions from a prophet that contradicted what God told him to do.

Reading it again this morning stirred so many questions in my heart.

I asked God, why did the man of God heed the prophet? The man of God clearly understood what God had commanded him, as he repeated it word for word at least twice.

I sense it's because what the man of God was tasked with was heavy, terrifying, and isolating. He was being sent into hostile territory to confront people gripped in a culture of idolatry—where he would have no allies, and to the king no less—someone who had power to hurt and kill him. In a word, the man of God felt alone (see 1 Kings 18:22).

After such a harrowing ordeal, I would have readily welcomed a friendly face too.

Then I observed that there was already a prophet in Bethel—the old prophet. So why didn't God send the prophet that was already there?

I sense that God did not send the prophet that was already there because he was already there. The old prophet was a part of the very thing that needed to be corrected.

The last question I'll share (as I have many) is how could the man of God have known? While he knew what God told him, how could he know that the old prophet was lying?

What burned in my heart is that it is vital that we not only discern the "what" of God, but also—and more importantly—the "why" of God. God does not just do things; He does them for a reason. So we must seek and discern His purpose and see it through to its completion.

God's purpose here was to restore—to bring His people out of a condition of sin, which you cannot do if you're participating in it with them.

"But others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire, hating even the garment defiled by the flesh." —Jude 1:23

In all, I gleaned:

• Be mindful of the things of God rather than the things of men. While an action or reaction may be perfectly reasonable, that is no excuse for disobedience. Be prepared to walk alone.

• Be careful not to be in the thing that God has chosen you to help others out of.

• Be clear, not only on what to do, but on God's why. Seek diligently and discern God's purpose in what He's leading you to do. When His leading is in agreement with His Word (1 Corinthians 14:32), stand on that and see it through to the end no matter what anyone else says (Acts 21:10-14).

#StayMindfulOfTheThingsOfGod