In Week 7 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Pastor…

In Week 7 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Pastor Johnny Buckner. It was the largest…

Originally posted on Facebook on Saturday, February 13, 2021.

In Week 7 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Pastor Johnny Buckner.

It was the largest interracial gathering I had ever seen in Starkville besides a Mississippi State football game. And there I was, at the podium of First Baptist Church giving the commencement speech before hundreds of high school graduates and their families. As a youth minister, I was in my element speaking to young people. But leading up to the event, I wondered, no -worried, whether I would resonate with white youth in the same way as blacks. It was then that I was reminded that what mattered was not their reception of me but of Jesus and He is universal.

So by the grace of God, I focused on lifting Him up, sharing how in the midst of very difficult challenges I faced after high school, it was Jesus who helped me through. I tried to share God's heart for them and encouraged them all to develop a personal walk with Jesus, closing by leading the audience in the hymn, "What a Friend We Have In Jesus." As I began to take my seat, I remember Pastor Gregory Jones sitting on one of the front pews with a straight face and a smile in his eyes, motioning a silent fist pump the way a father would celebrate a child's winning performance. It still warms my heart to this day.

I share this because the real story is this was but one of many times where Dr. Gregory Jones and Pastor Johnny Buckner had been partners in crime for the betterment of our community. See, Dr. Jones was supposed to deliver the commencement. Johnny Buckner had used his influence and platform to arrange it in an effort to bring the disparate and fractured parts of our community together. They later jointly decided that Dr. Jones would step aside to allow me to deliver it, having an eye toward handing the baton to others who could carry their vision into the future.

Decades before the George Floyd marches or Black Lives Matter, Pastor Johnny Buckner was working across racial and denominational lines with intentionality to bring mountains low and valleys high so that we all might share equal footing at the cross. He sought unity in Christ unhindered by worldly schisms.

Further evidence of this were the "youth nights" Pastor Buckner would organize at the old Coca Cola warehouse off Hwy 12. It was a place where youth groups from different churches, different denominations and different races from all over Starkville and beyond would come together. When I was the Youth Pastor at Greater Ebenezer, I loved taking our youth group there. It opened whole new worlds of fellowship and function in the body of Christ. We had some of our best Bible studies and discussions after these events.

I also remember when Pastor Buckner planted a church in, what was then, the old Burger King log cabin. I and Jannie Thompson often liked to take the Greater Ebenezer kids off campus because our group was teenagers and it was helpful to have a space that the kids could call their own, if only for a short time. Pastor Buckner opened the building to us, giving complete and unrestricted access to the facilities. It was one of the first times I had seen a Christian act like the church wasn't theirs but Christ's. Moreover, it was the first time as a black person I had gone to a "white church" and been treated as though the church was just as much for us as for them, rather than being told to sit at someone's footstool.

I am led to say how discouraging it must be to dedicate yourself, to give so much, to suffer loss (that by the Spirit I know that he did) and then to endure accusations such as "All white people are devils and racists," as though your work was for nothing and went completely unnoticed.

Well, I noticed.

And, for this reason, I can never go down the path of categorically condemning an entire group of people. Because of his life and ministry I know that the color of one's skin does not make them an enemy. "We wrestle not against flesh and blood.." It does not determine who they are. "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new." -II Corinthians 5:17

The life of Pastor Johnny Buckner is proof.

He is not my enemy. He is my friend. I am grateful. #52WoG

In Week 4 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Brother…

In Week 4 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Brother Jerry Linhares. Despite what we'd…

Originally posted on Facebook on Friday, January 22, 2021.

In Week 4 of 52 Weeks of Gratefulness, I give thanks for Brother Jerry Linhares. Despite what we'd like others to believe by the face we put forward, marriage is not always safe harbor, sometimes it's a war zone. There has been more than one occasion where Melissa and I almost didn't make it. But, God. Our family is where it is today because of the people God placed in our lives to bear with our weaknesses and lead us into the deeper things of God. Jerry Linhares was such a person.

The first time I met Brother Jerry, our marriage was in trouble. Both Melissa and I were fixated on what we were not getting and how the other fell short. We chose to meet with Brother Jerry because he was widely known for his wise, compassionate and Spirit-filled marriage counseling. But most importantly, neither of us knew him. That was important because our shared goal was to find a neutral third-party who could independently verify how wrong the other was.

On the day of our counseling session, we met in a small cozy office tucked away at the end of the hall at New Covenant Church. Brother Jerry allowed each of us an opportunity to speak, sharing our perspective on the problem. It didn't take long for the tension to rise. While we were pointing fingers and building our prosecutorial cases against each other, Pastor Jerry looked at me without the slightest hint of condemnation and gently said, "Paul, the problems won't change with a new face and a new name."

His statement left me dumbstruck. He did that Jesus thing. You know, where you come to Jesus with one question and He answers another question entirely? He answered the unspoken question, the one I was already contemplating inwardly -the question that underpinned my response to the problem at hand. He, as a vessel of Christ, spoke directly to the heart of the matter. What Pastor Jerry taught me that day was that the solution to the problem was not divorce, nor was it focusing on the constant I could not change (Melissa). The solution was focusing on the One who could change both constants (me and Melissa) and change the product entirely.

That is but one of the things I learned from a man who loved God and consequently loved people. Our lives have been forever changed by his. I've recently learned that Brother Jerry Linhares is no longer with us but is now present with the Lord. I thank God that I had a chance to share Life with Brother Jerry and thank Mrs. Susan Broomfield Linhares and Lindsay Linhares for sharing him with us and so many others. I am grateful. #52WoG

We must discern between the industrial church and the Body of…

Originally posted on Facebook on Sunday, January 3, 2021.

We must discern between the industrial church and the Body of Christ which is the real church.

You'll know you're in the industrial church because you'll be poorer, weaker, less informed, more constrained (unable to respond) and less effective as agents of Christ's kingdom.

In the Body of Christ, you'll lack nothing, be stronger through edification, more educated, more prepared to respond to every situation and more effective in demonstrating the love, truth and justice of Christ's kingdom.

In short the industrial church is a slow, lumbering, lifeless juggernaut that requires all of its power just to support itself and is completely powerless to give life to anything else.

Whereas the Body of Christ, is nimble, living, branching -bringing redemption and life to everything it touches.

Speaking to the church being nimble, effective and able to respond in every situation, it is no mistake that Scripture uses water as a picture of Christ's ministry, which is our ministry as His body.

Like water, our ministries may take different forms, yet fundamentally it is the same -Christ. As a liquid, it finds the hidden paths and with persistence wears away rock. As a solid, its one of the most formidable forces on the planet, able to carve paths through mountains and change the very landscape of the world.

Becoming an adult and raising boys has often raised the question:…

Becoming an adult and raising boys has often raised the question: "What does it mean to be a man?"…

Originally posted on Facebook on Monday, December 21, 2020.

Becoming an adult and raising boys has often raised the question: "What does it mean to be a man?"

At a time of increasing negativity around masculinity, the question seems more pressing than ever.

But masculinity is good and has never changed.

"God created man" […] "male AND female He created them." -Genesis 1:27

If we look to the Creator rather than trying to define ourselves, we find that true masculinity is being what's needed for balance, well-being -to be whole.

Sometimes what's needed is stern and others, soft.

This is universally true: in the bedroom, nursery room or board room.

Masculinity is the other half of whole.

“But God has placed each member in the body just as He pleased…”…

Originally posted on Facebook on Sunday, December 20, 2020.

"But God has placed each member in the body just as He pleased…" -1 Cor 12:18

I was born
what I am
when I am
where I am

to affect
what I am (human, black, male, etc.)
when I am (1970s – )
where I am (Mississippi, America, Earth)

for the purposes of reconciling all things to God through Christ.

That latter part means we exist to bless everything we are a part of, to bring everything (that is not in rebellion) together into the peace and harmony of the perfect rule of Christ Jesus.

In the whole of Scripture, God's purpose is singular: to be together with His children. Everything He creates and does is for that purpose. (2 Cor 5:18)

This is our purpose and the reason we exist.

Sin, therefore, is embezzlement; to misappropriate what He's entrusted to our stewardship for any other purpose. (Matthew 24:45-51)

Let us repent and live according to this wonderful and high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

I’m not sure how it happened, but one the of the worse things you…

Originally posted on Facebook on Thursday, December 17, 2020.

I'm not sure how it happened, but one the of the worse things you can call a man is insecure.

But, I'll own it. I'm insecure.

I often feel like I'm not good enough, don't have enough or simply am not enough.

And, I'm reminded of that everyday, several times a day in some way: media, commercials or exclusion in some form.

Insecurity is a daily battle but here's a strategy I've found to effectively fight it:

Insecure starts with "I".

So, don't start there.

A better place for "I" is toward the middle, serving as a connector such as in "friend", "family" or "Christ".

The point is, a good way of dealing with insecurity is to put "I" in context and focus on something larger than yourself.

These words from Hosea 4:9 put me on my face this morning, “like…

Originally posted on Facebook on Wednesday, October 7, 2020.

These words from Hosea 4:9 put me on my face this morning, "like people, like priest".

We have corrupted the Word of God by interpreting it through the lens of what we want -the leaven our Lord Jesus sternly warned us against (Luke 12:1). Religion has become merely a pretense to get what we want.

We have given ourselves "teachers" who will do the same (2 Timothy 4:3).

Woe to the church!

If there is no one, who has the Spirit of God AND will challenge our thinking AND call out our sin on the basis of the truth of Scripture rather than affirm our own agendas, what hope do we have?

Our hope is Christ. So, repent! Let us lay aside the causes for war and strife among us (James 4:1) and be HIS church.

Do not think this word is for another. It is for me. It is for you. We are all guilty. Repent.

“I cannot support Black Lives Matters call for justice and equal…

Originally posted on Facebook on Thursday, October 1, 2020.

"I cannot support Black Lives Matters call for justice and equal treatment under the law because there are people doing destructive, violent acts in their name and they're not denouncing it."

Yeah. The church has never been guilty of that.

Let's not be hypocrites. As Christians, we must stop behaving like mere men; thinking in earthly terms of them (enemies) versus us (allies). We're called to love them all.

In every circumstance and on every issue, we should stand for right and against wrong -not people.

Remember, Paul withstood Peter to the face. And, with that I say:

BLACK LIVES MATTER.

Our view of Satan as a monster does our theology a disservice.

Our view of Satan as a monster does our theology a disservice. Satan was simply someone who was in…

Originally posted on Facebook on Saturday, August 29, 2020.

Our view of Satan as a monster does our theology a disservice.

Satan was simply someone who was in the presence of God and thought there was a better alternative to His rule.

That line of thought is all that separates what's godly and demonic.

This helps me in my faith journey to see the demons in my own thinking that need to be overcome.

As God and His Way are revealed to me through the Word and the Spirit of Truth, where do I think I know a better alternative?

These are the battles that determine the fate of my soul.

This is spiritual warfare.

May I be honest? I’m struggling.

May I be honest? I'm struggling. In difficult seasons I sometimes feel like I must have done…

Originally posted on Facebook on Thursday, January 30, 2020.

May I be honest? I'm struggling.

In difficult seasons I sometimes feel like I must have done something wrong or that God doesn't approve of me in some way.

It's easy to see why some would feel that way. Church culture teaches and acts like "believing" makes us God's favorite people who get preferential treatment and should have no trouble in their lives. But that isn't biblical. (John 16:33)

If it were true that believers shouldn't struggle, riddle me this: Why is every believer given a helmet, breastplate, waistband, boots, sword and a shield as standard issue? (Ephesians 6:11-17) Armor makes it pretty obvious we should fully expect and be prepared for a fight.

There are no magical words, including the name of Jesus, that will make our problems go away.

Sometimes life is just hard. The full armor of God: truth, righteousness, understanding of the gospel, faith, salvation, and Scripture are weapons granted to us for dealing with every difficulty all of us are certain to face.

So be encouraged, fight on and do not lose heart. Victory is assured for those who endure to the end.