Under what conditions does love stop being love?
This is what this life is designed to test:
our love for God,
and under what conditions does the love we have fail? What thing, if lost, would cause our love to end?
We are not subjected to fiery trials to test our love for God because God is a sadistic megalomaniac,
but because the first commandment:
‘And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’
— Mark 12:30
is necessary to perform the second commandment:
‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’
— Mark 12:31
and is the only bond strong enough to accomplish God’s grand design: His ever increasing glory through Oneness, making us inseparably one with God.
“Jesus answered him, ‘The first of all the commandments is: “Hear, O Israel, the LORD our God, the LORD is one.”‘”
— Mark 12:29
“I in them, and You in Me; that they may be made perfect in one, and that the world may know that You have sent Me, and have loved them as You have loved Me.”
— John 17:23
The love that you love God with is the source of the love for everyone else, and however strong your love for God is, it is the limit of how strong your connection is to the person dearest to you.
If the love you have is less than God’s love, everything supported by it, everything built around it and everything connected to it will fail at some point.
There are some weights in life that anything less than love will not survive.
And there’s a coming day, the great and terrible day of the Lord, where whatever is within anything less than love will be destroyed.
So, our love is tested FOR OUR GOOD, so that our love is perfected,
because God’s love never fails
— 1 Corinthians 13:8
so that we, and everything built on and connected to that love lives and not dies, that our communion as One may be perfect
all for the wonderful glory of God.
What an amazing thing it is that we can be a part of that!
So, I encourage you to count every hardship you’re enduring as all joy! Remembering the point of the test.